We need each other, we need community-- on being present




I stayed in bed, snoozing and comfy, for a bit this morning. I've been so busy lately, I haven't felt rested. So, I rested. The news is horrifying, and I wish I'd stayed in bed-- sort of. But I have coffee, I have my family, and I have a lovely summer day ahead-- one that will include repotting some herbs and getting in the pool later-- and I have to focus on the blessings. 

One blessing is my new colleague at school. She is a smart, funny, and incredibly interested person; she is also a former student of mine who is eager to learn and be a good teacher. I spent almost three hours with her yesterday, and I tried not to overwhelm her, but it's so damned nice to be able to talk to someone who not only "gets it," but who also wants to do well as a team! Hooray! 

My PT for the hinky ankle/knee situation is going well, I think. I see better mobility already, but let's be honest, it'll take a bit of time, and I'll never be like I was years ago. But I am not having so much pain. And I hope to be able to walk almost normally again sooner rather than later. 

And the open mic/featured reader series is forming up amazingly. People need to be with other people who love good words and music. The need has never been greater, and I'm glad we decided to do this little project. 

We have a great need for community, for collegiality, for good words and good company to share them with. I'm seeing a dismantling of all of our social safety nets and the programs that sustain our most vulnerable in real time. This is not an erosion of services and norms, it's a full crash and burn. And in its place there are cages being erected for human beings, surrounded by both animal and human predators. I don't know how all of this will end, but right now, it's terrifying. We will need each other very much in the days and months and maybe years to come. 

Hug your loved ones, and be present to and for each other. God help us all. Listen to Pete.

C

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